Sunday, April 13, 2008



My poor baby. Is this not serious enough to deserve a phone call?

3 comments:

Unknown said...

I have a question for you. If it is not on the face but on his knees, leg, or hand, would you have been so angry? It does look bad but he does not seem terribly upset about it. Perhaps his carer made a professional judgement call. They typically call the parents if bleeding is bad and require stitches or the child is inconsoleable. As a parent it is hard for us to see our child like that but on the other hand,what can you do? You cannot rush to his side everytime he hurt himself. Children take cues from their parents and other adult. If you freak, he will freak. Then where would be the lesson to fall, get up, brush himself off, and carry one with what he is doing? As long as they washed the wound clean and Alex is calm, they have done their job. He is going to fall alot more and he is going to survive them all. Trust me on this one. Your boy is growing up and he needs to learn that he will be okay and able to take care of himself when mommy and daddy is not around. You must trust those involved in your child's life so he too can learn to trust.

Christine Hoh said...

I can accept that children will fall and it's part of growing up. The point is not weather on the face or other part of the body - it's the principle.

The policy of the nursery is to inform parents of such situation and it is up to the parents to collect the child or to leave them. The nursery called me once two months ago and the fall was not as bad. At that time, they asked me not to panic and to pick him up as usual. The second time, he fell just before picking up time and I saw them help him with his bruises when I went to pick him.

This time, I felt that they made a bad judgement call and tried to dodge from accountability.

I want to be able to leave my son somewhere safe and that the carer is accountable for their action. If we have kept our silence, what next?

We are not taking this matter any further but we want to give the message that we appreciate what they have done and we want them to know that we are watching as well.

Mummy and daddy never freak in front of Alex.

(c) 2016 Written by Andrew Batt said...

I actually agree with you on this Christine. From the pics I would say you should have been called. My experience with Matthew was that his nursery called almost every time he sneezed. They were very protective. I can imagine your shock and seeing this and not being told first. Adrinna is right in that he is gonna fall more times yes but I still think you place a lot of trust in your child carers and you expect them to care.